Of course giving up on a relationship is painful. At first I had sadden, and had so many doubts. I ended up confronting my doubts & it was for the better. After he was unemployed for 2 years helping him do random jobs, to help him. Helped him out for 3 years. Promised me many things that did not come true! He found a six figure job, and moved. After a month into moving he started to show his true colors! He went to a lingerie bar, wow does money change someone 180! Riddance to him!